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Monday, March 15, 2010
(nail polish: Essie Mint Apple Candy)

I was reading through some blogs and I came across a quote from THIS blog
"walk the other way, find who'll be bothered to stop & lead you back "
I love <3>

Back story. I use to always question why people do the things they do, say the things they say, turn away from you and pop back into your life at random moments. I use to sit and wonder the ways in which I could change the past - what I did wrong, what I could have done so this never happened. Truth is .. it's out of your hands, once you realize that - things come a lot easier. I feel like things happen for a reason and you can always walk away learning something from it. This quote is very interesting because when you want something more than anything you always work your best to make sure you get it! or at least try your best not to lose it. When you are holding on to something really tight and unsure if it's going to hold you up, maybe the best thing to do is let go and see if you rise or fall. I've been told I'm a strong person, I can "hold my own" I am very independent. Some people feel as though it's a bad thing ... others say a good thing. Thoughts?

I hope that you all had a beautiful day!

xoxo,

Jonesy

36 comments on "WhyAskWhy"
  1. Thank you for your comment :)
    I am now following you too. I completely agree with this post, well put.

    xx

    p.s. you are gorgeous!

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  2. I agree with your post too. I love your nailpolish :)

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  3. Being strong and independent are great qualities to have in life :)

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  4. so pretty! you have a beautiful smile! you look like keri hilson! have you heard that before? haha

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  5. nice post :)
    wow, you're so beautiful

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  6. Thanks for your comment and follow!
    I like your blog,too.
    I've just follow your blog<33 XXX

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  7. I always say...it's not what happens to us but how we deal with it that counts. I too am a strong person, and anyone who says it's a bad thing is just envious of your strength. ;)
    xoxo

    http://glamlatte.blogspot.com

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  8. Hey :)

    And nawh, all those lovely characteristics are GOOD thangs! I am who I am, and love being that way. I NEVER concern myself with other people's thoughts or opinions of me....because that's basically in reality what they are; "thoughts and opinions"...NOT FACTS. I ADORE and LOVE the skin you're in! You're pretty :)

    Have a nice day :)

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  9. I think it's a bad thing if you aren't open to receiving help because you can learn alot from other sources.

    However, it's never a bad thing to be strong and able to hold your own. The beauty of that is, never needing to depend on anyone else. Being [for lack of a better phrase] assed out - isn't an option because should it all fall -- U GOT IT! That's not bad at all.

    && quite frankly, ppl admire and are more inclined to do for a person who's independent.

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  10. nice blog! thanks for checking mine out too! i just saw your post about swaping links and would like to swap with you! let me know if you are interested :)

    iheartapparel.blogspot.com

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  11. strength is ALWAYS better than weakness.
    idenpendence is ALWAYS better than dependence.
    those who view these traits negatively are neither strong nor independednt. and they resent those who are.

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  12. Wow,
    this is such a cute photo,
    and such a lovely outfit!

    Panda xx
    ++ oh, and thanks 4 the sweet comment!

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  13. i love that nail polish! thanks for the support on my blog as well! xoxo

    Lindsey

    http://couturerehab.blogspot.com/

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  14. Just to let you know I've tagged you for the Tres Chic Award. Love your blog!

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  15. very cute pic n i agree with u totally so i need an answer too!

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  16. I`m loving the quote you found. . .definitely makes you stop and think.


    www.thestarvingstylist.com

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  17. wow! another great post, along with every other! Just love your blog sooo much! such an inspiration :) am bookmarking you! Hope you can stop by mine sometime!

    xx

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  18. love ur blog! thanks for follwing mine! and great post too!
    olivias-pizzazz.blogspot.com
    xx

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  19. love your style you are so pretty! and have the cutest clothes and the prettiest smile! i love h&m as well! thanks for the sweet comment, ill follow you too :)

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  20. I totally agree with that saying. It may have to become my new motto lol

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  21. cute post!i think that being weak from time to time is necessary. it's dificult to stay tough and pretend that everything around bothers you, however, independence is a good feature.

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  22. such a great post. The quote is really interesting and made me think. Love it
    *Nathalie

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  24. be strong and independent. it's what you can do for yourself. it helps you grow, it makes you intelligent. of course there are bumps along the way, but that's life. isn't it? or at least what we call life. =)

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  25. How wonderfully thought inducing! I like your style miss. haha:)

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  26. hey thanks for following me :) keep up with the blog
    following you too
    xx

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  27. you have a gorgeous smile - keep that up!

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  28. wow, reading this post made me think of me lol. Yeah I believe everything happens for a reason,bad things happen so you can learn from them and so you learn to appreciated the good things. And of course it's a goodthing to be an independant woman!!hehe

    P.S. thankyou for your comment!:)

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  29. I looked through your posts and I like your style very much! I'll be visiting you in the future :).

    And I have to say that in my opinion you've got great body and you don't need to lose any weight :).

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  30. Great post! So true! <3 Jenna

    xobutterfly-kissesox.blogspot.com

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  31. i love that nail polish. when i go home i need to stock up on great new colours!

    Walk of Fashion

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  32. YOUR GORGEOUS! I love your nail polish!

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