the say YES! challenge

So my beautiful friend Alexis (points down) challenged me to say YES!

(Alexis)

Alexis thinks that I say "no" a lot. When I complained that I wasn't invited out by a friend, Lex helped me to realize that people don't ask me to do anything anymore because they know I will say "no." At first in my head i thought "what!."

I would have loved to say that my response was "that's not true" but then I let it soak in and they are right. It is true. During the weekday I usually go home straight after work to work out or relax (watch the Bachelor .. don't judge me). I enjoy spending my weekends pretty much also doing nothing, ha. I grew up as an only child so most times I do enjoy just being alone. I like to decorate my apartment, paint, take photos, write .. all things you can do on your own without leaving your apartment. I'm tons of fun right?

My spontaneity is lacking! I often use the excuse "If i knew a couple days ago I may have

gone but i'm not prepared" or " I can't go. I have nothing to wear." ( I have a closet full of clothes, some with tags on it).

So Alexis has given me a challenge. The "Yes Challenge"

Basically it means that I can't say no. When a friend asks me to do something I have to say yes. Tired or not. I must say Yes!

Now there are restrictions to this challenge... obviously if it's someone I don't particularly like or a complete stranger, I can opt out

(at least I think i can) but if it's someone in my circle, I must say YES!

So for the next two weeks I'll be blogging about the different things I've done just because I couldn't say no.

Alexis believes that by going out I'll meet more people, have a lot more fun, and of course have more fab things to blog about.

Wish me luck!